“That’s my good girl; that’s my good baby.”

THE TITLE OF THIS POST should indicate that infant altruism, i.e., the Christian concept of love for neighbor, is a way of life that is probably predisposed for in a healthy, normal child, but must be constantly nourished. From day to day, indications begin to appear that a new human being is psychologically and perhaps also spiritually healthy.

a visit to Babycenter.com confirms it:

“Over the next few months, your baby may learn to assess and imitate moods and might show the first stirrings of empathy. For instance, if she hears someone crying, she may start crying, too. And even though your baby's just beginning to learn about her emotions, she's picking things up from you. Over the many months (and years) to come, your baby will likely copy the way she sees you treat people.”

Because we’re going through a difficult period currently, occasionally I’ll express myself emotionally in front of our daughter, when nobody else is around. You may find this strange, but even a 7-month-old can be a good listener. It’s true and it helps.

There’s an interesting detail at the end of the babycenter quote above. “...your baby will...copy the way she sees you treat people.” Does the presence of your child alter your level of civility for the better? What is also suggested is the benefit of the two-parent household. Parental interaction requires a giver and a receiver.

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